When the kids are asleep and you are all alone at home, what do you usually do? When my kids are not at home, when they go with my sister to eat somewhere or stroll outside our village, what I do is I take a very long shower. Haha. Showering is the best reward for me these times. Sometimes I wish my kids are older so I can have my own time, but when I look at them, I wish they would stay small for long.